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Love

noun

Deep care and attachment toward someone, joined with a desire for their wellbeing.

How it shows up in the body

Warmth, softness, wanting to be near, protective energy.

What it is telling you

This person matters. Love is a feeling and a practice — it shows up in how you treat people when it is hard.

The urge — and the choice

To assume they know. The choice is to show it in a way they can receive.

One thing to try

Ask someone you love, “What makes you feel cared for?” Then do that this week.

Practice it: I-statements.

Words you can use

I love you, and I want to get better at showing it.

Read more: Emotional literacy for families

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