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Sadness

noun

The ache of loss, disappointment or unmet hope — a slowing-down feeling that asks you to notice what mattered.

How it shows up in the body

Heaviness in the chest, a tight throat, tears, low energy, a downcast gaze.

What it is telling you

Something or someone was important to you. Sadness slows you down so you can grieve, rest and ask for comfort.

The urge — and the choice

To isolate or push it down with distraction. The choice is to let it move — talk, cry, write, or sit with someone.

One thing to try

Tell one safe person, “I’m sad about ___.” Saying the whole sentence matters.

Practice it: Feelings journal.

Words you can use

I’m feeling sad today. I don’t need you to fix it — I just want some company.

Read more: Emotional expression

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