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Disappointment

noun

The letdown when reality falls short of what you hoped or expected.

How it shows up in the body

A deflating feeling, a sigh, slumped shoulders, loss of motivation.

What it is telling you

You had a hope or an expectation. Disappointment invites you to look at whether it was spoken, realistic, and still worth holding.

The urge — and the choice

To stop hoping altogether. The choice is to name the hope and decide what to do with it next.

One thing to try

Finish two sentences — “I hoped that…” and “Next time I will…”

Practice it: Name it to tame it.

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